Social Responsibility...

I was discussing the sudden rise in crime among teenagers with a friend. I found the idea of society having a greater impact on the upbringing of children, rather than their parents, interesting.

I have based my theory around social interference. For example, there was a time when a parent was free to use spankings to rear their children. However, society determined that spankings led to child abuse and that would not be tolerated. Therefore, the methods of punishment offered to a parent dwindled to “time-outs”. Of course, parents also were encouraged to pursue logical discussions with their children so the young-uns would understand the reasons for their time-outs.

Most smart adults realize that when dealing with a three-year old, logical discussion is not an option. Sometimes a good whack on the backside and a firm “no!” is the only solution to a purple faced demon possessed child.

Of course, in order to be politically correct I must say I do not condone the beating of children. However, I do know that when in the middle of a fit, a child is unable to listen to reason. A smack on the bottom jars them to attention and corrective action can follow. Additionally, I still see the reports of child abuse on the news. Time-outs did not eradicate the heinous crime of child abuse.

Now years later, we are seeing the results of the social do-gooders. Children have become obnoxious. I know my elders said the same thing about young people’s disrespect; however, the young people today are downright scary. Most have an entitlement complex and absolutely no respect for others in society.

Oddly, enough when teenagers get into trouble; the first thing society says is the parents are at fault. Now I will admit, some people should have sworn off procreation but society must realize that “they” took away discipline options. If society wants to butt into the rearing of the children by proclaiming spanking a sin, then society should take responsibility when the youngsters turn out rotten.